i feel like i am allowed, and has warranted reason (for once) to be upset. i’m a relativly prideful person, and i don’t like being made a fool of.
truthfully, i’m prepared to get hurt, and i’m okay with it. getting hurt is part of life, and i refuse to allow one heartbreak slow me down or stop me from being in a functional relationship. it happens, and it doesn’t make you an idiot because it happens to everybody. you just have to accept it and get over it.
here’s what does make you an idiot though, in my personal opinnion. going into a “relationship” multiple times, and each time, allowing yourself to get hurt by the same person over and over again. you have to either, refuse to put up with and end it for good, keep on doing what you’re doing and getting fucked over, or harden yourself from it. because after it’s happened a few times, you should realize that it’s going to keep happening. you can choose to do whatever you like.
if there are more good times than bad, or even if there are more bad moments than there are good ones, but the good ones are much stronger, you’ve got the power to put up with it or not.
